Day 18 - Pervigasm with Mel


🌕Hello Dear Pleasure Treasures!

Tonight🌑Pervigasms, aphrodisiacs from the underground. 🌑🌑🌑🌑

🌖Who do you talk to about what really arouses you in your erotic fantasies?
🌗Do you remember the sexual fantasies you had as a child ?

🌗Arousal is what drives good sex, if you want to have better sex increase your arousal.

🌘Almost everyone is aware that being aroused feels good. Eroticism is the process through which sex becomes meaningful. Where sex can be simple eroticism by it’s nature is always complex. Eroticism is dynamic and paradoxical because it springs from the interplay between your attractions and what stands in its way. Positive emotions can cause arousal, but unexpected aphrodisiacs such as anxiety, guilt, and anger can have similar effects. Our fantasies can tell us a lot about how our eroticism works.

🌑Exersize 1:
1.Think back over all your sexual encounters with other people. Allow you mind to focus on two specific encounters that were the most arousing of your entire life. Describe each them in as much detail as you wish.
2. What are your ideas about what made each of these encounters so exciting.

Peek encounters do not have to be dramatic or sensational. They also not have to include any type of conventional or particular sex act.

🌒Exersize 2:
1.Imagine yourself really wanting to be sexually aroused but for some reason and you are not.
Based on everything you know about your sexuality, describe the fantasy that would be the very most likely to arouse you.
2.What are your ideas about what makes this fantasy so exciting ?
3.Describe the climax, the most intense point of excitement, of this fantasy.

🌓The question about the climax is the apex of intensity and excitement of your fantasy. “Peak turn ons” are precious jewels. We need to look at them from different angles.
Which specific details contributed to your arousal ?

🌔Factors that usually stand out are: power, taboo’s, being taken or ravished, first timers and surprises, idyllic situations and partners, extensions and restrictions of time. Our best encounters often take us to places where we have never been. Fantasies on the other hand usually cover well known territory. When you contemplate the assortment of images and encounters that have aroused you, what do you see ?

🌕Your most favorite sexual scripts encapsulate crucial lessons about which people, situations and images tend to evoke our most forceful genital and psychic response. When u think about your fantasies, these underlying feelings are the ones that show you how you really want to feel in, long, need to feel in your sexual encounters

(if you are a person who doesn’t fantasize don’t be concerned, just keep your mind open, be patient and self accepting, gradually we will slowly become more familiar with the way our erotic imagination works)

⭐️Note: The only way to learn consciously to suspend judgements is through practice in a nonthreatening environment. Erotic self discovery shows that deep erotic truths do not reveal themselves to judgmental eyes and non accepting hearts. I want you to give yourself full permission to welcome everything in that wants to present itself to you in this WANKADVENT celebration.

🌚Take a moment to set up the space, make sure you have a mirror close, get comfortable, get loose, put on your favourite pervisong on and listen to the recording.

⭐️(I want to honor all the work of Joseph Kramer who initiates sexological bodywork of which this is exercise is adapted from & I want to honor Jack Morin writer of the book The Erotic Mind who coined the term Core Erotic Theme. I also want to honor Audre Lorde, Bell hooks, Cathlyn Jesse, Betty Dodson, Kamala Lyra, Elaine Young, Genises P porridge, Staci Haines and Uma and Deej my teachers from the Institute of Somatic Sexology for all the pioneering work they did teaching us about pleasure, sexuality and so much more ⭐️⭐️⭐️ )

🌝Here is my Aphrodisiac 🍄🌱🌿☘️🍀🐉
Cheers! melanie 🦡